Wednesday, April 15, 2009

A thousand apologies

This post has been taken down to give face to my beloved wife and my mom in law. Dear, I'm sorry if I had given you a hard time explaining this post to your mum and sis, and I deeply regret it. This verse came into my mind and I would want to share it :-
"Since God chose you to be the holy people he loves, you must clothe yourselves with tenderhearted mercy, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. Make allowance for each other’s faults, and forgive anyone who offends you. Remember, the Lord forgave you, so you must forgive others" Colossians 3:12-13
God has shown me that venting one's fury and frustration over spilled milk is unGodly and we deserve better. If one loves another, issues like this would not appear. 
So to my sis in law, this is what I would want to share with you :-
"Don't have anything to do with foolish and stupid arguments, because you know they produce quarrels.  And the Lord's servant must not quarrel; instead, he must be kind to everyone, able to teach, not resentful" 2 Timothy 2:23-24

10 comments: said...

haha sick fart..i never used that term before.. lol..

some people are sick farts la, i met some before.. just dont give a fart about them la! XD

Kikey Loo said...

wow.. i learn many %*&(*&(% words from this post.. :p

i hope u feel better now..

reanaclaire said...

whew... cool down man... cool down..
btw, do u think he will come across yr post here? can strain relationship leh like that... but then, u no fear hor... yr intention is to let him read and realize.. :)

Malaysian Joe said...

Sick farts are everywhere.... but lets look on the bright side ah... you do not meet him that often.. :)

Calvin Soo KJ said...

kenwooi, many more terms for this jerkoff. i'm trying to contemplate on some words to describe him best.

kikey, dont use it in public though...hahahaha

reana, welcome home :) i dont think he reads my blog, coz to him its a waste of time. but is he does, then he should read my last para again and again. talks big but small balls, hide behind his wife when problems arise, then my wife were to be blame.

mjoe, yes...but his attitude sickens me becoz it involves my poor rachel. people say we learn from experience and matures in time, but this sick fart is the exact opposite. no one dared to confront him, i would if given a chance. it's just that i wont be screwed, my wife will.

eugene said...

hi bro,you see you can throw at him with the same level frustration as shown in your writing, and no need to give face one,, usually this kind of MTF is of low self esteem, so could not care less lah

Calvin Soo KJ said...

eugene, i had to pull down the post coz my wife got a hard time explaining that this post was not her doing. so to make peace *smirk* and as a christian, i must admit my mistake for putting it up in the 1st place. correct me if i'm wrong, but if family love and bonding is important, then this issue would not arise. said...

ooo i see.. i wish to remove my comment too then.. but i cant.. lol.. take care calvin =)

BlurryLeo said...

Bro .. cool down lar .. crappy things happen .. that's life. step back & relax, wokay? God bless.

cleffairy said...

Hmm... I missed this one, but I think I remember, must be about some man demanding to sit at the same table or something. =.= paiseh, bro, been busy these days. Summore my line got prob.