tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6618068036711386712.post81119160067878395..comments2023-09-27T20:50:24.052+08:00Comments on CALVIN SOO PHOTOGRAPHY: Blessings in marriageCalvin Soo KJhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17816817715239888902noreply@blogger.comBlogger21125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6618068036711386712.post-73127716768556038332009-04-17T14:27:00.000+08:002009-04-17T14:27:00.000+08:00hey calvin,
the reason why i posted that questio...hey calvin,<br /><br /><br />the reason why i posted that question was because I do not believe that marriage is an achievement in life....<br /><br />simply because marriage is and has been a part of human life for a very long time ...<br /><br /><br />to me the word achievement is like, you achieved certain goal at work like a position, but achievement is not about achieving the next stage of life, which is marriage...<br /><br /><br />marriage is a part of our life... its like the next thingy to do when we are very sure about it ... <br /><br />so i guess , i dun dig the achieving marriage life ...but I do dig on HAPPY AND BLISSFUL MARRIAGE is achievable, that could be the achievement :D<br /><br />*gosh crapping here* hahaLisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11643052758047244404noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6618068036711386712.post-37964751619724436842009-04-08T12:05:00.000+08:002009-04-08T12:05:00.000+08:00aronil, thanks :) glad you liked it. stole some in...aronil, thanks :) glad you liked it. stole some info from the net though....only a lil..hehehe<BR/><BR/>mszane, having a bf and a hubby is diff. you have to get married to understand. but since you're still young, you still have time for experiment. not too long though. :)<BR/><BR/>kenwooi, got gf yet?? if you do, then treat your gf as how you treat yourself. you'll never know , she might end up being your wife. marriage and relationships are about responsibility as well. you wouldnt want to jump in the boat if you never know where you're heading, right? cheers bro.Calvin Soo KJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17816817715239888902noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6618068036711386712.post-41409036739227204092009-04-08T03:22:00.000+08:002009-04-08T03:22:00.000+08:00haha nice one calvin!enjoyed reading it, although ...haha nice one calvin!<BR/>enjoyed reading it, although im still too young to talk about marriage lol.. well different people have different perception on marriage and i agree with yours.. marriage IS certainly an achievement.. well not the main achievement, but it's still a great thing to do in life, isn't it? hehe..<BR/><BR/>cheers! =DAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6618068036711386712.post-30993398418643833792009-04-08T00:04:00.000+08:002009-04-08T00:04:00.000+08:00Heu.. if it can be "tried" as in trial and error, ...Heu.. if it can be "tried" as in trial and error, that'd make it a tempting choice. Yet, then it's no diff then having bf.<BR/><BR/>Funny, I don't think <EM>always</EM> having a companion is fun..Miss Zanehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08075339326358730594noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6618068036711386712.post-34539314168578642712009-04-07T17:32:00.000+08:002009-04-07T17:32:00.000+08:00i really like this post and it gives an inside vie...i really like this post and it gives an inside view to the man's perspective on marriage :) Such a romantic.. so sickeningly sweet :PLinora 'Aronil' Lowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16206533113700776303noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6618068036711386712.post-64318462352181180522009-04-07T14:44:00.000+08:002009-04-07T14:44:00.000+08:00amoker....need any help :)amoker....need any help :)Calvin Soo KJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17816817715239888902noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6618068036711386712.post-53260749485288313522009-04-07T14:03:00.000+08:002009-04-07T14:03:00.000+08:00Yeah man... i need to find a wife .. soon. heheYeah man... i need to find a wife .. soon. <BR/><BR/>heheamokerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11796429650849780970noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6618068036711386712.post-38201822919910694782009-04-07T13:30:00.000+08:002009-04-07T13:30:00.000+08:00blurry, im lucky to have understanding in laws, an...blurry, im lucky to have understanding in laws, and rachel vice versa....lol. pray i dont potray as a monster when my children gets married :P<BR/><BR/>mszane, marriage is fun. plus, we have company all the time :) try it on for size :)<BR/><BR/>clef, wah....your hubby is a walking atm?? sure pokai sooner or later...hahaha. and yes...overtime on bed. lolz<BR/><BR/>ai-ling, most people will agree to my post only after marriage. i got nanged in nn by someone coz he says i'm talking nuts....lolz. his time will come.<BR/><BR/>jo, no need to learn too hard. marriage is a learning process. you'll never learn everything till the day we die. <BR/><BR/>mjoe, same here. i think i would break down and cry should my daughter/son gets married. im kinda sensitive on these issues....lol<BR/><BR/>ungreg, *hi five*<BR/><BR/>foongpc, it depends lor.....if you wife is like "queen control" like clef, then cannot help you liao....hahahahah. clef, no hard feelings k. :)<BR/><BR/>chris, dont learn too long though. have to think of marriage anytime soon. you're an air-steward right. surely can find a beautiful stewardess... :)Calvin Soo KJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17816817715239888902noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6618068036711386712.post-14944703351857030432009-04-07T03:40:00.000+08:002009-04-07T03:40:00.000+08:00i still in the learning process.i still in the learning process.Chrishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16847356274840105139noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6618068036711386712.post-81046207797042543282009-04-06T23:11:00.000+08:002009-04-06T23:11:00.000+08:00I heard that married men live longer lives...provi...I heard that married men live longer lives...provided they are happily married, of course : )foongpchttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09592884550810521137noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6618068036711386712.post-56548815388718401702009-04-06T20:08:00.000+08:002009-04-06T20:08:00.000+08:00agree with you bro, communication and respect is i...agree with you bro, communication and respect is important in a successful marriageGChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16261206502528003521noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6618068036711386712.post-63723276216361643202009-04-06T18:22:00.000+08:002009-04-06T18:22:00.000+08:00Marriage... yeah you can say that again.. tough is...Marriage... yeah you can say that again.. tough issue contemplating marraige...<BR/><BR/>Been married 12 years.. I still wonder if its the right thing to do.. :).<BR/><BR/>Just kidding really... to me, my two kids are enough reasons for me to keep this marriage happy and lasting. Nothing gives me more joy than to see my kids grow up before my eyes in a happy and loving family. At the end of the day, I guess its all worth the while especially if they grow up to be successful people. Well, successful here does not mean career wise although that will be a plus point.. phew! I would not want to be footing their living expenses! LOLMalaysian Joehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14210367112637801605noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6618068036711386712.post-11689291905268021682009-04-06T17:57:00.000+08:002009-04-06T17:57:00.000+08:00I need to learn very hard now...I need to learn very hard now...Josephinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04094675013628887362noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6618068036711386712.post-43682986505299646112009-04-06T15:55:00.000+08:002009-04-06T15:55:00.000+08:00very true, calvin. you need to communicate, trust,...very true, calvin. you need to communicate, trust, compromise and understand each other in order make a marriage work.<BR/><BR/>there's a lot of hard work involved but satisfaction is always what you get at the end of the day :)Ai-Linghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12267357901854876953noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6618068036711386712.post-49842713553155035692009-04-06T15:54:00.000+08:002009-04-06T15:54:00.000+08:00Blurryleo.... lmao... who says I dun have a son? o...Blurryleo.... lmao... who says I dun have a son? o.O My son will be fearing me instead of my daughter in law fearing me. ahahahha.... because, I'm all for girl power, will probably gang up against DIL against my son. Can go shopping, go salon, go makan makan, drag her for vacation, on son's expanse. In return, I will spoil the grandkids.Ahahahhaha, syiok.<BR/><BR/>Frankly speaking, the way to one's son is not by his stomach, but by his wife once he's married. So by hook or by crook, I'm gonna be a hippie MIL.<BR/><BR/>Now, back to the topic. I really got more freedom after married than before married. And the best thing is, I got a walking ATM machine. Ehehehhe....spoiled to death by hubby and in return, i spoiled him too. =.= We're both spoiled, but then, marriage taught us both a lot of things. We mature and grew stronger with marriage. Frankly speaking, without marriage, I AM NOBODY! If I'm not married, then I am just a normal shallow minded person who only knows how to have fun and not plan for my future. But with marriage, my horizon is efficiently expanded.<BR/><BR/>With marriage, I am complete. I'm a daughter, a wife, a mother, a supporter, and all those a woman should be, but without it, I'm just a plain mindless girl who doesn't even know the direction of her life. I might be even lost, not knowing what my priorities are.<BR/><BR/>and @ Calvin.... what kind of overtime you're tokking about, bro? LMAO....in bed kah? Ahahahahaha....if yes, then, hell yeah! Nonid feel guilty. that one if no overtime then very sien worrr!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6618068036711386712.post-41109286313585325912009-04-06T15:52:00.000+08:002009-04-06T15:52:00.000+08:00Ha Ha, to some marriage is a very complicated subj...Ha Ha, to some marriage is a very complicated subject. Depends on the angle you look at things. There are pro and cons in many decision we made in life....it depends on our priority.Petehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13769000274478173272noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6618068036711386712.post-33038420309512838042009-04-06T15:42:00.000+08:002009-04-06T15:42:00.000+08:00well said, Calvin.. communication and compromising...well said, Calvin.. communication and compromising with one another makes the marriage journey easier and smoother.... i think... hehee..Reanaclairehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01716477622054835019noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6618068036711386712.post-13917737149996334042009-04-06T15:36:00.000+08:002009-04-06T15:36:00.000+08:00As far as I'm free with the nosy parents, i'm stil...As far as I'm free with the nosy parents, i'm still the in the hesitated zone.. <BR/>ayayay.. it does sound fun though!! ^^Miss Zanehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08075339326358730594noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6618068036711386712.post-88262771757295644262009-04-06T15:25:00.000+08:002009-04-06T15:25:00.000+08:00Marriage is indeed a blessing in many ways. it's p...Marriage is indeed a blessing in many ways. it's part and parcel of life stages one should get through. if you love someone, what better way to profess and strengthen the love than marriage. haha, don't you dare say 'make love' .. if you don't have the balls for marriage, it's sex (no love involved). and girls, please dump your man if he hasn't the ball for marriage. also, who says you'll loose your freedom when you get married. total bullshit. it's a matter of trust and understanding between husband and wife. even when you have kids, you still have that freedom. i still get to hang out with friends whenever there's an invitation. the same goes to my wife.<BR/><BR/>clef: not all are monsters ler. if you have a son next time, you might be thought as one too (by his wife).. hehehe. karma strikes ^^BlurryLeohttp://www.blurryleos.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6618068036711386712.post-39299114173473124902009-04-06T15:20:00.000+08:002009-04-06T15:20:00.000+08:00clef....same here *hi five* plus we get to do over...clef....same here *hi five* plus we get to do overtime without feeling guilty....hahahahaCalvin Soo KJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17816817715239888902noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6618068036711386712.post-2697953185141067972009-04-06T14:36:00.000+08:002009-04-06T14:36:00.000+08:00*horny Clef came in a grin* HOI, marriage is a BIG...*horny Clef came in a grin* HOI, marriage is a BIG achievements. Wahahahahahaha...<BR/><BR/>Seriously, who says being married cannot do this cannot do that, huh? Being married is a damn good excuse to escape nosy parents who still think you're still in diapers though you're all grown up and completely capable of taking care of yourself!<BR/><BR/>*chuckle*<BR/><BR/>I love being married. Apart from monster in laws, i wouldn't trade my status being a married woman for anything.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com